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Question We know what happened to Ibi now

9 years 5 months ago #1 by Dawnfyre
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    • bigclosetr.us/topshelf/blog-entry/59271/sorry

    his own words.
    Stupidity is a capitol offense, a summary not indictable one.
    9 years 5 months ago #2 by NeoMagus
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    • Dang. Just dang... :(
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    9 years 5 months ago #3 by Dawnfyre
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    • yup.
    if Ib12us would stick around and talk about it I know he would find there is a lot of emotional support in the communities.

    After all, there is a whole lot of feeling like he does in the trans communities so we know how it feels.
    Stupidity is a capitol offense, a summary not indictable one.
    9 years 5 months ago #4 by NeoMagus
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    • Yeah...
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    9 years 5 months ago #5 by Arcanist Lupus
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    • I know he won't see this, but Ibi, I wish you the best of luck and a refuah shlema. I hope that you can rejoin us some day happier, healthier, and surrounded by friends.
    "Shared pain is lessened; shared joy, increased — thus do we refute entropy." - Spider Robinson
    9 years 5 months ago #6 by Dreamer
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    • I know he might never see this, but I wish Ibi the best and hope he will accept the help of those who care about him as he recovers. I've seen how losing a wife can affect someone, my own brother lost his wife after being with her for only 5 years and is still recovering. I myself am a mess due to various issues, including high anxiety syndrome, social anxiety disorder, and varying degrees of depression that fluctuates, so I know how hard it is not to simply slip into a routine and live life on autopilot. I know he doesn't want comments or pity, but I still wish him well and hope he will return someday.
    Thank You for story comments appreciated and help me know me they are being read and liked. :-) Note: My story comments can't nor are trying to replace reading the stories, simply my way of enjoying them and letting the authors know I enjoy them.
    9 years 5 months ago #7 by E M Pisek
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    • Kinda looks around..... (o> (o < o) o) ..... Not sure not sure....to soon mayhaps. Still says thanks.
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    9 years 5 months ago #8 by elrodw
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    • Ibi is a friend, I've met him, and I'm staying in contact with him. He sent me what he posted, and then some. Because we're friends, I may know more about what's happened than most, but as I don't have permission and he doesn't want pity, I'm respecting his privacy, so don't ask. Suffice to say he got dealt a really shitty hand these past few years. I'm still in touch with him, and I'll help him in any way I can - if only to listen and give him a virtual shoulder to cry on. He almost pushed me away, too - but he didn't, and for that I'm grateful, so I can keep in touch. Having been through some emotionally tough times, I can offer to him the same advice my counselor gave me, and encourage him as much as he'll let me. I'll keep you informed if he gives me permission; after he hears the good wishes from people who care, he may relent and not trying to be so private.

    I'll pass along your best wishes.
    Never give up, Never surrender! Captain Peter Quincy Taggert
    9 years 5 months ago #9 by NeoMagus
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    • Thanks, Elrod, that's probably the best we can ask for, rather than just posting things here and hoping he'll see them.

    And Ibi, since it seems like you're at least watching a little bit, just know that you've got support here. Plenty of listening ears at the very least.
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